The mentor's role:
Mentors are another source of help in the overwhelming process of getting the student into the best college or university, with the most financial aid.

The parents' point-of-view:

• This new mentor is a stranger
  
• Can I trust this mentor with my child?
  
• Is my child going to look up to the mentor more than me?
  
• Will this person come between my child and myself?

The mentor's challenge is to address these issues in a non-threatening way. Be clear that mentors are not there to interfere in any way with parental decisions nor to replace them.

• The parents' level of involvement varies;
  
• Finances are often private, be sensitive in this area.

Some parents may adopt the mentor as:

• Their mentor
  
• A friend
  
• Reliable source of help

The best relationships between parents and mentors are those which focus on how to work together to ensure the students' success.